If a girl doesn't want a relationship, should you stop taking her out for dates?

Yeah.

Well, as I say in the book, a man's job in the courtship is just to create an opportunity for sex to happen to hang out and have fun, hook up.

Being worried about a relationship tells me that you're all up in your feelings and your feminine energy.

You're probably being too soft and you're acting you know she's acting more masculine than

you are and women want a guy typically that's more masculine than they are and so

I mean feminine energy is bonding connecting opening up to receive love

relationship labels dating commitment you know the guy who's happy and enjoying his life,

he's not typically in a rush or even 100% focused on a relationship or getting married or anything.

He's focused on his outcome.

And his attitude is kind of like, hey, let the best woman win me over.

Like I often talk about it's a wonderful life.

It's what I loved about that movie is Jimmy Stewart's character, George Bailey, is he wants to move away from Bedford Falls when his brother comes home after college and go see

the world he's got all these plans and meanwhile there's Donna Reed's character plays Mary

who's had a crush on George Bailey since they were you know little boys and girls and always

wanted him to be the father of her children and so her plan is that she is always trying to get his attention

and the women are kind of conspiring in the neighborhood

to get them together because when they get together, like,

things, like sparks happen.

And eventually he falls in love and it's, you know,

they live happily ever after. but it's like she's

got her plans she's got her design and she's making making that happen and he wasn't you know there

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