ICYMI - The Gaylor Fandom Is Going Through It
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4.2 • 2K Ratings
🗓️ 6 September 2025
⏱️ 53 minutes
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Summary
On today’s episode, hosts Candice Lim and Kate Lindsay are joined by Spitfire News writer Kat Tenbarge, who came to the defense of the Gaylor fandom (people who believe Taylor Swift is secretly queer) after they were accused of “crashing out” in light of her engagement to Travis Kelce. But who are the Gaylors, really? And why are they always the butt of the joke?
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| 0:00.0 | Hey, I'm Candice Lim. |
| 0:15.1 | And I'm Kate Lindsay, and you're listening to I see why am I. |
| 0:18.5 | In case you missed it. |
| 0:20.2 | Slate's podcast about internet culture. |
| 0:23.0 | And Candice, have I ever told you that I have met Taylor Swift? |
| 0:29.0 | Uh, no. |
| 0:30.8 | Tell me more. |
| 0:32.0 | Yeah. Sometimes I forget, too, because it was such a blip, but I went to reputation, but I went to reputation as press. |
| 0:51.3 | And so we got to do a little meet and greet beforehand. |
| 1:00.3 | And my coworker and I went together, we actually decided to, well, we asked, we were like, |
| 1:05.3 | maybe there was this meme that was kind of going around or like a viral series of photos because Taylor would do these meet and greets. |
| 1:07.5 | And in one case, a couple had gotten engaged during the meet and greet and there were these |
| 1:12.1 | like photos capturing taylor's reaction and it was like kind of among swifties going viral because |
| 1:17.2 | it was just like a little moment so this had just happened and me and my coworker were like |
| 1:21.5 | would you want to recreate that with us uh and she was down like she, yeah, let's go do it. She took us back to the |
| 1:28.7 | meet and greet area. We recreated it. I have all the photos. And it was just like a cute |
| 1:34.0 | little thing and I had posted them. But you'll notice on my Instagram, they're all gone. |
| 1:37.9 | Oh. And here's why. Because my coworker is a woman. And we weren't thinking about this at all when we did the stunt. |
| 1:48.2 | We were just like, oh, funny, let's just recreate this bit with Taylor Swift. |
| 1:51.8 | Right. |
| 1:52.5 | When we posted it, it went bananas. |
| 1:55.6 | Oh. |
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