ICYMI - How to Thrive as a Party of One
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3.8 • 546 Ratings
🗓️ 26 October 2024
⏱️ 44 minutes
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Summary
Candice Lim is joined by Meghan Keane, the founder of NPR’s Life Kit and the author of Party of One: Be Your Own Best Life Partner. We’re approaching “cuffing season,” a viral term that demarcates those colder months when everyone in your life suspiciously couples up. While it’s bred a whole economy of cozy, staying in vlogs and soft (or hard) launches, what happens to those who choose not to cuff up this season — or ever? On today’s episode, we’re talking about what it really means to choose yourself in a world that pressures us to partner, and how the internet helps or hurts this narrative thanks to friendship breakups, dating app screenshots, and unfiltered Reddit advice.
This podcast is produced by Se’era Spragley Ricks, Daisy Rosario and Candice Lim, with production assistance from Alexandra Botti.
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| 0:00.0 | Hey, I'm Candace Lim, and you're listening to I-C-Y-My. In case you missed it, Slade's podcast about internet culture. |
| 0:22.2 | And I'm really excited to welcome my guest today. She's the founder and supervising editor of NPR's Life Kit, and she's also the |
| 0:27.3 | author of a new book called Party of One. Be your own best life partner. Please welcome to the show, |
| 0:32.6 | Megan Kay. Hello, Megan. Hello. Thanks for having me, Candace. Megan, the funny thing about us is that we actually used to work on the same floor together |
| 0:41.2 | at NPR. |
| 0:41.9 | We sure did. |
| 0:42.8 | Fourth floor, best views. |
| 0:45.1 | And I'm so glad to reunite with you today. |
| 0:49.6 | Because I have a question to ask you. |
| 0:52.3 | Look, Megan, you are a first time guest on this show. Therefore, |
| 0:56.6 | I must ask, what is your first internet memory? So I wanted to be journalistically true and really |
| 1:04.5 | think about the first time I experienced the internet. I was thinking, I was like, maybe it was when I |
| 1:09.8 | started looking up song lyrics. And I |
| 1:11.6 | thought, no, it was like a little before that. How did I know to search for those things on the |
| 1:15.8 | internet? And I realized it was when my like elementary school class got told, we're going to |
| 1:22.2 | the library today and the librarians are going to teach you how to use ask Jeeves. And we sat like as a big class and we all learned like Boolean search with like quotation marks when you put around certain phrases and all these other things. |
| 1:37.0 | And just sitting around a computer with like three other fourth graders understanding like what does it mean to like quote search the internet so yeah |
| 1:45.7 | ask jibs is i think probably my earliest memory okay question for everyone is ask giv's AI i guess i mean |
| 1:53.2 | it has to be i mean look i'm the wrong person asked but i wonder if there's like a difference in like |
| 1:57.3 | the algorithm being used but because with with Google now, you do get |
| 2:01.3 | legitimate AI sources on the bot text box, right? And those are different from just searching |
| 2:06.3 | the internet for you. But yeah, hard to say. Maybe that was, you know, a foreshadowing event also for me |
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