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Death, Sex & Money

I Was Your Father, Until I Wasn't

Death, Sex & Money

Slate Audio

Careers, Sexuality, Business, Health & Fitness, Relationships, Society & Culture

4.6 • 7.7K Ratings

🗓️ 24 February 2021

⏱️ 33 minutes

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Summary

A listener named Tony wrote to us about his deep love for his daughter, and what it was like to discover that he wasn't her biological father. Support Death, Sex & Money by becoming a monthly sustaining member. Sign up now. Like our show? Leave us a review on iTunes! Plus, follow us on Twitter @deathsexmoney and Facebook at facebook.com/deathsexmoney. Sign up for the Death, Sex & Money weekly newsletter at deathsexmoney.org/newsletter. Email us any time at deathsexmoney@wnyc.org. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

Hey, it's Anna. Last week, we shared some of your one-night stand stories, mostly positive

0:07.0

reflections on fleeting, no strings-attached encounters. But it also got us thinking about a story we shared a few years back, about a one-night stand that had deep, lasting, and painful consequences. It's also a really beautiful story.

0:22.4

So we're sharing that with you again this week.

0:24.6

Stick around for the end to hear an update.

0:28.1

Do you think you were a father?

0:30.3

Yeah.

0:31.1

Is it past tense?

0:33.0

Yeah, probably.

0:34.7

I wouldn't consider myself a father now.

0:40.2

This is death, sex, and money.

0:43.5

Please, they're dead. It's a little late to be neurotic.

0:45.6

The show from WNYC about the things we think about a lot.

0:49.0

Are you guys like boyfriend, girlfriend?

0:51.1

And need to talk about more.

0:53.0

I've always admired men like your father.

0:55.3

Wealthy, but not stuffy.

0:57.5

I'm in a sale.

1:00.9

Six years ago, when Tony was in his mid-20s, he was working as a bartender and a photographer

1:06.2

in a Western college town.

1:08.4

One night after work, and after a few drinks, he hooked up with a woman he dated back in high school.

1:14.3

It was just pretty random. The whole thing just kind of happened really fast and then was over.

1:19.4

Then, a few weeks later, she told him she was pregnant.

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