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Hey, hey, Waffle, gang. I do hope you are well. My name is Mark, and today we're checking out some relationships cross with Am I the asshole.

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And of course, it does follow with an update.

It's from hokey pokey guest list who says, would I be the asshole if I declined a wedding

invitation after accepting but didn't send a present.

My partner, Martin, took me out to dinner to meet

his close friend Andy and Andy's fiancé, Anna. I thought we got along well and Andy said he hoped

to see me as a guest at his wedding. Martin, Andy and Anna all worked for the same employer.

Martin is part of the employer's leadership group, but neither Andy nor Anna are

in his reporting line. Also fake names and timeline of events is compressed. Martin's invitation

was addressed to him and guest. He accepted for both of us. A week later, he told me about a phone

call from Anna. Apparently she had miscalculated the number of guests they

could have at the venue and would I mind terribly if she cut me from the guest list. Apparently,

Anna was too embarrassed to ask me herself. Since we'd only just met, it seemed reasonable I was one of

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