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Date Yourself Instead

I was LOVE BOMBED - a dating story time

Date Yourself Instead

Lyss Boss

Society & Culture, Relationships

4.82.3K Ratings

🗓️ 22 May 2023

⏱️ 38 minutes

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Summary

The first half of this episode talks about self worth, valuing yourself and to avoid jumping into a new relationship before you've processed a breakup. The second half of this episode talks about love bombing and a story time of a guy I dated super briefly that was fucking obsessed with me for a hot minute and then put me in a really uncomfortable situation, and THEN vanished off the face of the earth. If you liked or could relate to this episode, follow me and dm me on instagram @lyss and stay updated on the podcast account @dateyourselfinstead. Xoxo.

Transcript

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0:00.0

Welcome to date yourself instead.

0:02.4

Date yourself instead.

0:03.4

What does it mean to date yourself instead?

0:05.1

I'm just going to learn to love myself, and that's it.

0:11.0

I strongly believe that you need to be completely alone

0:14.5

before you are ready for your soulmate.

0:17.0

Not single and entertaining a bunch of people at once.

0:20.4

Not having random, meaningless hookups and swiping on dating apps 24-7.

0:26.0

Not texting your ex for no apparent reason when you're drunk.

0:29.8

I really believe taking time by yourself and with yourself

0:34.1

to really get to know who you are on a deeper level

0:37.2

is a crucial part of finding the one and finding your soulmate.

0:42.0

And some people might disagree with this,

0:44.3

but I truly believe that you really need to know

0:47.2

how to love yourself and respect yourself and value who you are

0:51.0

and know what you believe in and what you stand for

0:53.4

and also know your boundaries before you meet your soulmate.

0:59.0

And this obviously doesn't mean you can't have a good

1:01.4

group of friends surrounding you

1:02.9

and you can't have good people surrounding you and supporting you.

1:06.4

It doesn't mean isolating yourself from the world completely.

1:09.9

It just means to stop distracting yourself

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