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It's time for the strawberry letter with my great friend Shirley Strawfairn.

Thank you, my friend, Jr.

Subject, I was in the closet the whole time.

Do Stephen Shirley.

I'm 28 years old, and I've had the worst dating history of all my friends.

I was recently dating a guy that told me he had a stalker,

and we had to lay low for a while until she left him alone.

I understood why he might have a stalker because he is fine

and sexy with a ball head and a full beard. He's 36 years old, so I was intrigued by dating an

older man for the first time. I had been to his home a few times, and it was very nice, so I asked him

who helped him decorate it. He said his mother

used to be an interior designer, so she helped him out. We primarily spent time at my apartment,

though, because his house was way in the suburbs. All of these red flags were popping up,

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