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Coach Corey Wayne

I Was Her Boyfriend, Now I’m Just Her Backup Plan

Coach Corey Wayne

Coach Corey Wayne

Relationships, Society & Culture

4.6532 Ratings

🗓️ 25 March 2022

⏱️ 9 minutes

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Summary

What you should do if you are no longer her boyfriend but are simply a backup plan until she finds someone better.


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Transcript

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0:00.0

Hi, I'm Coach Corey Wayne and this is my video coaching newsletter. And the topic of today's

0:05.2

newsletter is going to be, I was her boyfriend. Now I'm just her backup plan. I've got an email

0:12.3

from a guy. He was dating his girlfriend for about a year and he got dumped several months ago.

0:18.5

Then he came across my work, started reading 3% Man, and started employing

0:23.5

what he saw and learned in the article I've done called Some Principles Get an Expect.

0:30.7

So after about three months of no context, she came back into the picture, but recently one of his friends found her on the dating

0:39.3

app Hinge, even though they've kind of been like friends of benefits, even though it said it was

0:43.3

like she was a new member, a new profile. She was claiming to him, oh, that's an old profile. So obviously

0:50.0

he caught her in a lie, but because he's so into her, he's just, he's so blinded by reality.

0:56.7

So I got a quote that I wrote, because this email really brings up a good point.

1:00.6

When a guy is emotionally invested in a woman, it doesn't matter how many red flags are around.

1:06.4

He just keeps going and doesn't pay attention to him.

1:09.9

And this can be dangerous for men and women,

1:12.9

for that matter, when you have people that are displaying all kinds of red flags in their behavior,

1:17.4

low integrity behavior, but because you care about them and you're emotionally invested in them,

1:22.7

you allow them to get away with all this stuff. And it just never ends well. So I got a quote that I wrote and we'll go

1:30.2

through his email. The quote says, no one will ever do or say anything to you that you don't invite

1:33.9

them to do. If you act weak and don't stand up for yourself, you will invite people into your life

1:40.4

who take advantage of you. If you are a man who is too nice to women, you will attract

1:46.8

women who will jerk you around, treat you like a dormant, and display all kinds of disrespectful

1:51.2

behavior towards you. Women can't love men who they don't respect and admire. So it says,

1:58.0

hey coach, I made a big, big mistake. Prepare for a big, come on man.

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