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Assalamu alaikum

Divorce is very difficult especially when you have had children together and then your ex-spouse

Would obviously require access to those children if you're the one who has the custody

Now Allah Almighty knows that this was going to happen

He blessed you with children Subhanallah and he is watching to see are you going to fulfill the rights that you have on your shoulder after divorce?

If you don't you failed you may not be able to show face on the day of judgment

but if you have

Actually fulfilled those rights in the best possible way and on both sides if we have been very respectful

Very reasonable very

Understanding sticking to our times and our timetables and so on making life easy for one another and not

Trampling over the toes of the other we will in shahallah succeed

It's unfortunate that sometimes people who are practicing they would fulfill five salah they would fast twice a week perhaps twice a month

They would read one Quran every few days and they would be so

Outwardly pious sometimes some of them deny access to their exes of

Their children and this is something dangerous

Yes, I do know that sometimes some of the exes make life so difficult that it becomes

Extremely hard to allow them anything simply because of how vulgar they are and because of what has happened

Sometimes it is necessary to deny them if they happen to be known

Abuses if they have abuse those children if they have terrible habits they are criminals or perhaps they are heavily abusive of

you know drugs and alcohol and so on and it is

It is in order to protect the children from that particular spouse

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