Thanks for listening to my call of the day podcast. You can hear my live radio program Monday through Friday from 2 to 5 p.m. Eastern Time on Sirius XM Triumph 11. Aaron, welcome to the program.

Hi, Dr. Laura, thank you so much for taking my call. I had the chance to speak with you some time ago, and I found your advice life changing. So here I am again.

My wife and I have married for, yes, thank you ma'am. My wife and I've been married for

about three years together for four, I'd say a fairly fulfilling marriage.

Lately I've encountered some rose blocks I suppose, as it relates to her sexual gratification,

if you will, we're pretty regular and have a fairly healthy sex life, but I sometimes

have difficulty getting her to the other side, if you will.

When it happens, I try to articulate to her that how important her pleasure is to me.

And when I do that, I seem to kind of fall on my face and it ends up sounding more

like an issue with my performance and my own insecurity. So I'm here today to find out how I

can better communicate to her that I am genuinely interested in her fulfillment without sounding

self-absorbed or immodest, if you will.

It's so exciting for me when you release into an orgasm.

Okay.

Just okay.

That's it.

It's so exciting because it is.

A real man finds it very exciting that his woman can get there.

But, you know, I mean, there are certain techniques, I'm sure in all the years you've been together, you know, are more likely get her there than not.

But it's easier for men to have orgasms than it is for women.

Part of that is evolutionary biological because you need to have an orgasm in order to make

babies. We don't have to have orgasms to make babies. An egg gets popped out all by itself.

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