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Jason, welcome to the program. Hi, Dr. Oara. Thank you so much for taking my call again. Last time we spoke,

it was it was a bit crazy and I really don't think that I made a whole lot of sense,

but what you said to me made sense.

And what did I say to you?

I don't know if you told me that no wonder why my wife is unhappy with me because I'm a truck driver and it was a second marriage

and I needed to go and take care of my daughter. So I wanted to thank you because it really just

kind of sat with me for quite a while.

A few months, I think February is when I called in.

And I listened daily, and there's a lot of eye-opening that's kind of occurred.

And I kind of use your program as therapy.

I hear a lot of people calling in saying, hey, they're in their second marriage.

The gentleman who called in a couple of calls ago said that, you know, his wife had passed away,

and he has since remarried, and he's wondering, you know, what's going on.

There is a lot of infighting in second marriages, or at least in my marriage, I would say, where my spouse would, you know, try to parent my daughter a certain way.

I'd try to parent her child a certain way to the point where I would sit back and let her parent it, and then she would get mad at me because I'm not stepping in but I'm not sure when to. So there was just this this constant push and pull,

push and pull, push and pull to the point where I just came to her and said, you know, we can't do it.

You know, you talk about, you know, living, there's a day that you're going to die.

And I started thinking about that more and more and more.

And I can't live like this.

I feel like I'm not doing or not even feel.

I'm thinking because I know that you like to focus on more of the thought than the

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