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Tina, welcome to the program. Thank you Dr Laura. Hi, what's up? Well, I'm really honored to speak with you, so forgive me for my flutters. I am

majorly adult woman at this point and I have adult children which I guess the old song Two Out of Three Ain't Bad because two of my kids

talked me on a pretty regular basis, but that one little sheep, she's my middle daughter, she's 30, and she has been pushing me away, you know, less conversations with me, less and less sharing the things that are going on in her life.

And you know, I know I can't control her and I've had a very frank discussion, conversation brief with her that I'm hurting because I feel like I'm losing my connection with her.

And she just says, oh yeah, sure mom, we'll talk soon and then nothing changes so I guess I need some

hope with knowing how to you're demanding too much you're demanding too much. Yes.

I can already tell from what you said.

Okay.

When they're 30, they don't tell their mommy's everything anymore.

They don't have a need like a little kid with her best girlfriend to unload every piece of thought feeling

I mean there are privacy and embarrassing things and all kinds of stuff that's none of your damn business

So for you to get whiny and

sad that it's not the way it was is for you not to let go. She's not your best

friend. She's an adult now and she's got to leave the nest and withdraw some of that.

We discuss everything, business.

This is normal and healthy.

For you to complain about it is kind of destructive.

Okay.

Okay.

Okay. I would call her up if I were you and I would say you know what I've been giving great

thought to what you said and you're absolutely right minute you say that her

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