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Sirius XM Triumph 111. Nice. Welcome to the program. Hi, Dr. Lura. Thanks for taking my call.

Thank you. So my sister passed away last August. She suffered with MS for years. She died quite

young. She was 51. Her husband, my brother-in-law, is now engaged again to be married.

And, you know, he loved her. I know he loved her. He took care of her, you know.

He's met someone online. They've had three meetings in person. They live in two different cities.

And their fourth meeting, they're getting married in like a month. And she's from a different

country. I've never personally met her. We don't live in the same city. His kids are both grown.

They're both adults. They are having a hard time with it. And I don't know if I should say anything.

I mean, I think it's really fast. I think why rush? Maybe just, you know, get to know her. She could

be great. I'm sorry. You think he's so stupid that these things you're saying you would tell him

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