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story comes from gossick 23 and says would I be the asshole if I accepted an offer to work

abroad against my husband's wishes I female 26 got an offer from my boss to move abroad

next year for six months to open a new branch of our agency

and be a branch manager. It's a two-hour flight away. It's an incredible offer to get at my age

and I worked my ass off for the past two plus years as a project manager slash team leader to get here,

started off as the former role. Organically became the latter one as well. I'd have

all expenses with the move covered. It's a dream come true for me career-wise. Here's the issue.

My husband, male 29, doesn't want to move. He's about to have an exam in December to finally

get all necessary qualifications for his profession.

Think like bar exam in the US. His salary would go up and he'd be able to be independent,

but only in our country. I'm not sure he'd be able to find a job abroad and he really doesn't

want to move. I'm making three times his salary and would still live comfortably.

But understandably, he doesn't want to break in his career, especially when it's finally going

to take off. He wants to save as much as possible to buy a house, have kids, etc. I want the same,

but not necessarily now, perhaps in a year or so.

We don't have enough saved to do it earlier anyways, and I want to negotiate my salary

for the new position, so that we would still be on track with all these plans.

Spread a little context.

He's always been more domestic, doesn't care to learn more languages or travel, which is

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