It's Tuesday, and this is the Ramsey Call of the Day, part of the Ramsey Network.

Joining me today is Ramsey Personality, Chris Hogan.

Stevie is with us in Erie, Pennsylvania.

Hi, Stevie. Welcome to the Dave Ramsey Show.

Hi, thank you.

How can we help?

Well, my question is regarding choosing a financial partner looking towards marriage.

Okay.

So currently I'm in a serious relationship.

You know, we're both pursuing a longer goal, but I've noticed some things that are red flags, I would say.

And I'm not sure if I'm being overcritical in it or just being attentive to the

situation. So this individual, for instance, there are a couple examples I can give. One of them

is if we were to both go out to a restaurant, this person's been unemployed for the past nine

months, you know, they will order the most expensive item on the

menu every single time when they are being paid for, but when it's my turn to pay, you know,

I always pick the cheapest, keeping in mind the fact that we're both students and I'm also

working currently.

The second example would be he just graduated and he took two months to get persuaded

into looking for jobs seriously.

And now that he's found one within three days, he's already considering quitting.

To me, it just seems a bit of a red flag.

Stevie, how long have you all been together?

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