I’ve Never Had Sex . . . And I’m About to Get Married

The Dr. John Delony Show

Ramsey Network

Society & Culture, Health & Fitness, Mental Health, Relationships

4.8 • 5.9K Ratings

🗓️ 28 August 2024

⏱️ 52 minutes

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On today’s episode, we hear about: · A fiancée who’s nervous about intimacy with her soon-to-be husband · A wife considering whether ending her marriage is the right decision · A husband who’s terrified of having kids Offers From Today’s Sponsors · 10% off your first month of therapy at BetterHelp · 3 free months of Hallow · 25% off Thorne orders · 20% off Organifi with code DELONY · 25% off plus 2 free pillows at Helix Sleep · $350 off Pod 4 Ultra at Eight Sleep · 40% off Cozy Earth products with code DELONY · 20% off DeleteMe with code DELONY Next Steps 📕Read Dr. Emily Nagoski’s book Come as You Are: The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life 📞 Ask John a question! Call 844-693-3291 or send us a message. 📚 Building a Non-Anxious Life 📝 Anxiety Test 📚 Own Your Past, Change Your Future ❓ Questions for Humans Conversation Cards 💭 John’s Free Guided Meditation 🤘🏼TDJDS T-Shirts Listen to More From Ramsey Network 🎙️ The Ramsey Show 💸 The Ramsey Show Highlights 🍸 Smart Money Happy Hour 💡 The Rachel Cruze Show 💰 George Kamel 💼 The Ken Coleman Show 📈 EntreLeadership Ramsey Solutions Privacy Policy https://www.ramseysolutions.com/company/policies/privacy-policy

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0:00.0	Coming up on the Dr. John Deloney show.
0:07.0	Kind of having anxiety about being intimate in the marriage and just kind of the thought of it because I have waited for marriage.
0:14.4	Yeah, if you've never had sex before and you're waiting for this moment and this person,
0:19.4	of course you're going to be nervous. Now if that nervousness begins to shut you down, that's something then you got to explore and talk about.
0:27.0	What in the world's going on? What's going on? This is John with the Dr. John
0:34.2	Deloney show. I'm so glad that you are hanging out with us today. Wherever this
0:39.3	finds you, if you're on the YouTube's, if this is in your headphones and you're out walking your dog or mowing the yard or painting something or vacuuming something or just trying to burn off some steam.
0:50.0	I'm so glad that you are with us. If you want to be on this show, we're taking real calls from real people going through stuff all over the world.
0:57.0	Going through relationship challenges, struggling with their mental health, heading into or out of relationships, challenges with kids, whatever you got going on in your world,
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1:13.0	John Deloni dot com slash ask a s k ride it out hit send and we'll see if we can get you
1:19.4	on the show all right let's roll out, roll out to Chicago, Illinois, and talk to
1:25.9	Eve. Hey, Eve, what's going on?
1:30.3	Hi, John, how are you? I'm remarkable. How about you? I'm good. Excellent. What in the world's going on?
1:37.0	So, um, recently, just to give it a little bit of backstory, I I am pretty young I'm 20 years old my soon to be
1:47.7	husband my fiance is really hard-working man, very sweet, very kind. However, I've been struggling with kind of having
1:57.9	anxiety about being intimate in the marriage and just kind of the thought of it because I have waited for marriage.
2:05.3	Okay. I am still a virgin.
2:08.4	Okay. And so I guess I'm kind of anxious about like maybe losing my identity or maybe it becoming routine and you know even worse maybe me even not wanting to be intimate with him anymore.
2:23.1	So it's just kind of hard for me to navigate that.
2:26.0	Yeah, well, I mean, you're trying to navigate waterways
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