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So I've dug myself a hole, and I don't know what the right answer is.

I probably do know what the right answer is, but I don't know how to get out of it.

Okay.

What happened?

Well, I can make a long story short.

My wife and I got married two years ago after dating for about six years.

We waited to all the kids were out of high school and we could combine households a little more easily.

After a big wedding, we started trying to pay stuff off, but the minute we got home from the honeymoon,

and when business became, when it became the business of a relationship, the relationship changed,

and that's where the problem lies.

So in the process of paying stuff off, last July, we decided because we weren't making any progress on the four or on the credit cards,

we made it a really wise decision to take a 401K loan for $50,000 payable in two years to pay it off.

But now the credit cards are coming back.

So I've got a list if you want a list, but just not sure what to do with it.

So your core question is what?

How do I fix this and keep my marriage?

Oh, okay, okay.

Wow.

All right, so you've got a total of how much debt?

120.

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