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I Took Indifference Too Far & Got Dumped. Now She’s Back. What Now?

Coach Corey Wayne

Coach Corey Wayne

Relationships, Society & Culture

4.6532 Ratings

🗓️ 22 December 2025

⏱️ 23 minutes

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Join this channel to get access to exclusive members only videos:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCQTAVxA4dNBCoPdHhX9nnoQ/joinJoin Members Only On My Website. 7 day free trial. Save 25% when you choose an annual Membership plan. Cancel anytime:https://understandingrelationships.com/plansJoin Members Only on Spotify:https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/coachcoreywayne/subscribeHow to balance indifference & pursuing to attract women back effortlessly.In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email from a viewer who was seeing a new woman after a bad breakup. He took indifference too far and was too much of a cold fish. She dumped him. Eventually she came back, but he wasn’t prepared & didn’t set a date. When she circled back he was ready, set a date and the indoor olympics happened. He’s unsure of how to balance pursuing and indifference going forward.If you have not read my book, “How To Be A 3% Man” yet, that would be a good starting place for you. It is available in Kindle, iBook, Paperback, Hardcover or Audio Book format. If you don't have a Kindle device, you can download a free eReader app from Amazon so you can read my book on any laptop, desktop, smartphone or tablet device. Kindle $9.99, iBook $9.99, Paperback $29.99 or Hardcover 49.99. Audio Book is Free $0.00 with an Audible membership trial or buy it for $19.95. Here is the link to Audible to get the audiobook version:https://www.audible.com/pd/B01EIA86VC/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWT-BK-ACX0-057626&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_057626_rh_usHere is the link to Amazon to purchase Kindle, Paperback or Hardcover version:http://amzn.to/1XKRtxdHere is the link to the iBookstore to purchase iBook version:https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/book/how-to-be-3-man-winning-heart/id948035350?mt=11&uo=6&at=1l3vuUoHere is the link to the iTunes store to purchase the iTunes audio book version:https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/audiobook/how-to-be-a-3-man-unabridged/id1106013146?at=1l3vuUo&mt=3You can get my second book, “Mastering Yourself, How To Align Your Life With Your True Calling & Reach Your Full Potential” which is also available in Kindle $9,99, iBook $9.99, Paperback $49.99, Hardcover $99.99 and Audio Book format $24.95. Audio Book is Free $0.00 with an Audible membership trial. Here is the link to Audible to get the audiobook version:https://www.audible.com/pd/B07B3LCDKK/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWT-BK-ACX0-109399&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_109399_rh_usHere is the link to Amazon to purchase Kindle, Paperback or Hardcover version:https://amzn.to/2TQV2XoHere is the link to the iBookstore to purchase iBook version:https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/book/mastering-yourself-how-to-align-your-life-your-true/id1353139487?mt=11&at=1l3vuUoHere is the link to the iTunes store to purchase the iTunes audio book version:https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/audiobook/mastering-yourself-how-to-align-your-life-your-true/id1353594955?mt=3&at=1l3vuUoYou can get my third book, “Quotes, Ruminations & Contemplations” which is also available in Kindle $9,99, iBook $9.99, Paperback $49.99, Hardcover $99.99 and Audio Book format $24.95. Audio Book is Free $0.00 with an Audible membership trial. Here is the link to Audible to get the audiobook version:https://www.audible.com/pd/B0941XDDCJ/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWT-BK-ACX0-256995&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_256995_rh_usHere is the link to Amazon to purchase Kindle, Paperback or Hardcover version:https://amzn.to/33K8VwFHere is the link to the iBookstore to purchase iBook version:https://books.apple.com/us/book/quotes-ruminations-contemplations/id1563102111?itsct=books_box_link&itscg=30200&ct=books_quotes%2C_ruminations_%26_contemplatio&ls=1

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0:00.0

Hi, I'm Coach Corey Wayne, and this is my video coaching newsletter, and the topic of today's

0:05.5

newsletter is going to be, I took indifference too far and got dumped. Now she's back. What now?

0:13.2

So this particular email is from a viewer. He had a bad break of about nine months ago, and then a few

0:20.4

months later, he met the woman that he writes in about.

0:24.2

And so it kind of looks like he was a little gun shy.

0:27.2

Maybe he wasn't even that into her.

0:31.0

But eventually, she ended up breaking things off with him.

0:35.0

Because as she later said in their text exchange, he made like zero effort to reach

0:41.3

out. Plus she tried to lock him down to a commitment. He said no. So I would say more than likely,

0:47.3

he probably wasn't super into her at first, still staying in from the breakup that he had with his ex,

0:53.5

and wasn't really putting his full effort in with her.

0:57.7

And he didn't care too much until she dumped him.

1:01.2

Because remember, rejection breeds obsession.

1:05.8

So now she came back, but I guess he kind of admits he wasn't a great student of 3% man,

1:15.1

or mastering yourself for that matter.

1:17.4

But after his breakup, he realized he needed to get serious, got back into it.

1:22.4

She reached out once, and then they just texted, and he didn't bother setting a date,

1:27.3

because again, i don't think

1:28.2

he'd gone through the material or seven principals get an ex-pack and so after he hadn't heard

1:33.6

from her he started going through it and realized that he should have he missed an opportunity to set

1:38.1

a date she circled back again he made a date she kind of balked a little bit and he held her feet to the fire. She came over. They hung out and had fun hooked up. And one thing she said was like he made no effort to reach out, no effort to make her feel wanted or desired. Like I said, he was probably still singing from the breakup, wasn't really super into her or into dating,

2:03.8

because again, he's still thinking about the ex. I don't know how long he was with her.

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