Am I the jerk for telling my wife to get over it knowing that she's struggling with infertility?

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I'm a 42 year old man and my wife, who's 38, have been trying for a child since we tied the knot six years ago.

We haven't had any success. We have had failed IVF treatments and miscarriages again and again.

This is obviously taken a toll on my wife. I own a business.

A year after my wife and I got married, I hired Noah, who's 26 years old.

Noah has a fiance, Taylor, who's 26, as well.

Noah and I get along great. He's like a second son. I have one from a previous marriage and we have a good bond.

Taylor is also a great girl. She's very kind and they seem very happy in their relationship.

My wife has always had some sort of animosity towards Taylor.

I'm not sure why. She just seems to get very angry around her.

Early on in a meeting, Taylor tried to talk to my wife, but she would always brush her off or ignore her.

My wife has told me she thinks Taylor is too stuck up, only because she comes from money.

Over the weekend, we all attended a gathering. We ran into Noah and Taylor.

Now Taylor is a very slim girl and her stomach is usually flat.

She looked very bloated. She's sad for a majority of the party was only drinking water.

She also wasn't as dressed up as she usually is. Noah had talked to me a few days prior asking

me for tips on being a dad. He said they were expecting. So I knew this.

It slipped my mind to mention to my wife beforehand.

A few of the other women at the party asked Taylor if she was pregnant. She said yes.

They then asked her how far along she was and she said she was only 11 weeks but they were

expecting triplets. So she looked a lot bigger than she would had they only been having one.

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