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Much love, guys. Now, today's first story comes from Husband of the Redhead and says, am I the asshole

for not wanting to be my wife's backup plan?

My 34 male, wife 35 female, we have three kids and have been having marital problems for years.

It reached a boiling point at the end of 2021 and we separated but got back

together in 2022. Part of the condition of getting back together was that we attend therapy

every two weeks for an entire year. We only ended up doing therapy for about three to four months

and my wife said she wasn't getting anything out of it and didn't see the point in going so often.

We both disliked the therapist so I agreed and we had noticed that things were getting better,

so we were working on it on our own.

The reasons we went to therapy and why we were having problems were, A, she was not attracted to me at all anymore.

B, she didn't want me touching her. She felt repelled

by my touch and didn't want hugs, kisses, cuddling or any type of affection. C, she wanted

to explore a sexuality with other people, men or women. We've been together since our early

teens and have only been with each other. She wanted to be alone.

She had this feeling that should be happier by herself.

Things were getting better into a few days ago.

I found an old confession she had written out from 18 years ago when a mutual friend kissed her.

That was supposed to have been the entire story, but it details how much she liked the attention

and she actually pulled him into another room and kissed him. It didn't go any further. supposed to have been the entire story, but it details how much she liked the attention, and

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