My father abandoned me and called me a waste. Later on life he needs an organ. I agree and match

with him and then abandon him at the hospital the day of the surgery after calling him a waste.

He will die alone and I will ruin his funeral. My parents divorced when I was in first grade.

Not only did my dad disappear like Houdini, he stole my mother's ATM card to her personal account

and drained her dry. My mother being the saint that she is didn't even bat an eye. She was still

cordial to him and never said a negative word about him. To me my dad albeit abandoning us was

still my hero. From first through fifth grade I had the usual abandon by dad stories. Maybe

you want or two visits a year and 50 times of me waiting by the front window with my suitcase

packed up to go to his house and him never showing up. My mom through all of this was supportive

and never said an ill word about him so he still stayed my hero. When I was in sixth grade my mother

finally remarried and my father who only had a picture of me at eight months old and his wallet

went ballistic. Did I mention that he never paid child support? He would use his father's social

to have the same name to get away with it. After my mom remarried he let it be known that I was

now my stepdad's responsibility. He cut off communication with me until I graduated high school.

He didn't attend my graduation or send a card. What he did do was write me an email thanking God.

He no longer had to pay child support. He didn't do it anyway. What really broke me?

Was his ruthless and brutal attack on my mother. Attacking her weight, her looks, her teeth,

and blaming any perceived negative traits that I had on her. For the first time I realized

what a cowardly piece of trash he was. I responded in kind. He told me I was no child of his and

that I was a waste. After that I vowed that I would hurt him. Ten years later my father not

interested in my wedding or my son reached out to me. You see he is a diabetic and one of his organs

was failing and he didn't have long. He's too far down on the list and he needed someone in

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