Brought to you by the Every Dollar app. Start budgeting for free today. I've been married for two years.

I've taken a few of your courses and I've paid off around $30,000 of debt and I still owe around

$40,000 more. But when my husband and I first got married, we always have the intention on combining

our income and all of our finances, but he seems to just always have an excuse.

I've noticed recently that I, and I hate to even say this about him, but I feel like he's maybe taking Adderall and taking more than he should.

And I notice him maybe having a few beers in the afternoon, which is out of character for him.

So I'm just starting to worry if maybe those are the reasons he's not

wanting to combine our finances or what I should do.

You think he's worried because you'll find out he's spending way too much money on alcohol?

Yes, and I'm just, I'm kind of overwhelmed right now, I guess, because I'm working two jobs.

I watch our two sons from home full time, and anytime we have any child care, I'm paying for that.

Our mortgage is in his name only, and I'm paying about 80% of that mortgage every month.

So it's just, I'm getting very overwhelmed.

Did you buy the home after you got married?

No, the home was his before we got married.

Is your name on the deed?

No.

This is very scary.

They've offered to, yeah, they've offered to put the name in my house, my name on the house.

It's not necessary in Tennessee. If you're married, you now have marital rights to the house. It's your marital residence. So in some states you need your name on the deed. In some states, you don't. You don't have to. That's not what's concerning here. what's concerning here is just the disconnect in your marriage your marriage is a mess kiddo it it is

you know i'm not even worried about the housing if i leave financially i'm fine i make really

good money what do you make i just said i about 130 000 a year what's he make he makes around 80 a year. What's he make?

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