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Ask Pastor John

I Sought a Prostitute — Am I Doomed?

Ask Pastor John

Desiring God

John Piper, Unknown, 163859, Pastor, Ask, Theology, Desiring God, Religion & Spirituality/christianity, Christianity, Religion & Spirituality, Questions

4.83.8K Ratings

🗓️ 2 November 2020

⏱️ 13 minutes

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Summary

Proverbs says that no one who visits the “forbidden woman” will return to the paths of life. So, is a man who seeks a prostitute doomed?

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0:00.0

Hello everyone, welcome back to the podcast. I know many of you listen through the car

0:09.4

radio or through a podcast app on your car speakers with young kids in tow and you're

0:15.2

not always able to see the episode titles. I just want to give you a little heads up that

0:18.9

today's episode is sensitive. Today's question comes from an international listener named

0:25.0

David. Hello, Pastor John. My thoughts keep returning to Proverbs 219. It says none who

0:33.0

go to her come back nor do they regain the paths of life. Please, I need a deeper clarification

0:40.7

on this verse because I'm frightened due to a recent experience. I'm a teenage Christian

0:45.0

boy 17 years old. Recently, I was carried away by my lust and foolishly decided to look

0:51.0

for a temporary sexual partner through a hookup site online. I made contact with two women

0:57.0

and they made promises saying that they would give their bodies to me in exchange for money.

1:00.8

I paid them the money online, but they scam me and never showed up. When this happened,

1:05.8

I felt really stupid and angry with myself. I lost about $100. Later, I was able to reflect

1:11.6

and see that what I did was wrong and that I deserved the loss. I'm really grateful

1:16.5

to God because I feel that he allowed the scam to come my way because he was preventing

1:21.9

me from losing my virginity. But I feel scared that I even went this far in the process.

1:29.0

Even in seeking out a process to do, I feel like I have crossed a line I cannot return

1:34.1

from. Pastor John, have I? My answer very simply is I do not know if David has crossed

1:45.0

a line. I don't know whether he's crossed a line that cannot, from which he cannot

1:51.6

return. But I can say to him that having sex with a prostitute or intending to and paying

2:03.1

for it is not beyond God's forgiveness if there is genuine repentance. That is an authentic

2:13.8

repudiation of the ugliness of that sin and a turning to Christ for mercy and for the

2:21.8

power of reformation and for the enjoyment of Christ himself as a superior pleasure to

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