I Shouldn’t Have to Ask: When Relationships Feel One-Sided — Alyson and Tripp Lanier
The New Man
Tripp Lanier
4.6 • 643 Ratings
🗓️ 17 February 2026
⏱️ 57 minutes
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| 0:00.0 | Before we start the show, I want to thank the thousands of you, the thousands who have read. |
| 0:06.6 | This book will make you dangerous. Many of you have told me that the book's unique way of exploring |
| 0:11.1 | fear, confidence, and purpose has had a lasting impact, that it's much easier for you to get |
| 0:17.2 | clarity and direction about what really matters and what you want to do in this lifetime. |
| 0:23.1 | It's also amazing to hear that quite a few of you have read it multiple times and even bought |
| 0:27.7 | copies for friends. So thank you again. Just in case you weren't aware, I created a free companion |
| 0:33.6 | video course for the book. And in these videos, I walk you through the big takeaways and practices |
| 0:38.9 | from each chapter. And I even cover some extra stuff that's not included in the book. |
| 0:43.8 | Information on how to access the course is in newer versions of the book. And if you own an older |
| 0:48.6 | version of the book and you don't know how to access the course, just hit me up via the contact |
| 0:53.0 | form at triplinear., and we'll get you all |
| 0:55.7 | set up. And one last thing, if you're one of the thousands who have already read the book, |
| 1:00.4 | please consider leaving an honest review on Amazon so that others can decide if it's right for them. |
| 1:05.5 | Again, thank you so much for reading this book will make you dangerous, and now let's start |
| 1:10.0 | the show. i'm not really |
| 1:13.4 | into this masculinity movement and what does it mean to be a man and all that kind of stuff but one of |
| 1:17.9 | the things i believe of being a man in that regards to be an adult and it is this contributor mindset |
| 1:23.3 | it is like what needs to be done and how can i help and i'm amazed at how many guys guys that I talk to, they're like, yeah, I'm all about being a masculine and whatever. And it's like, but your actions are you're being a boy. You're being a prince. You're kind of sitting around waiting to be taken care of. And here's an opportunity for you to say, hey, before I relax, and what needs to be done? How can I help? Well, how can I be a contributor? |
| 1:44.5 | Yeah. |
| 1:46.2 | And there just can be this gap. |
| 2:00.8 | And that shows us that this masculinity thing is more performative. It's like, hey, I've got a beard, and I fucking work out, and I do, and I drive a truck. I have a sleeve of tattoos. Right. And it's just like, okay, great, you know, nice job. To me, at the core of it is like, how am I lifting others up? |
| 2:01.7 | How am I contributing? |
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