Am I the jerk for refusing to take my sister and her kids in unless her husband stays out?

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I'm a 32 year old male and my father passed away two years ago.

He left me and my half sister, we both have different moms, same dad,

inheritance that we equally split between me and her.

My sister spent her inheritance money in just a few months.

She is a stay at home mom with two kids and always had financial hardship.

I haven't touched my inheritance money.

I live in an apartment that I inherited from my biological mom in 2016.

My sister sent me down to talk about her and her husband's current situation.

She said her husband can no longer pay rent and they needed a place to stay.

I asked for time to think since me and her husband don't get along.

She said that was okay.

The next day she showed up with her tone completely changed.

She said her husband thinks I'm being manipulative by taking time to think about letting them come.

And that my apartment is an inheritance and she is my sister.

Therefore I should share with her and the kids.

She said her husband also says that if I wasn't going to let my sister share the apartment

then I should give her half of my dad's inheritance saying it's not fair since my sister doesn't work

has two kids and is now homeless.

While I have a paying job, no kids and a whole apartment to myself.

I was speechless.

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