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Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm a 43-year-old married woman and my husband and I have four children.

The teenagers are fine, but I went and had two younger children that get on my last nerve. They take so much time and energy that I don't feel like I have any time for myself.

My husband doesn't help me out at all

with the children, so I'm a full-time housewife and mother. My husband used to come home during the

day for a quickie, but he stopped doing that. Our three-year-old usually comes in our room at night,

so I stopped trying to have sex a year ago. That doesn't mean that I don't

need to or want to. I just don't want to do it with my husband or in the U.S. at all.

Huh? My girlfriends and I are going through similar experiences, and one of them researched a

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