Welcome back to other people's lives. I'm your host Joe Sanagado. I'm your host Greg

Dybeck. Today we are speaking with someone who sent us an email with the subject

line that read, I'm living as a boy and my family doesn't know. So we'll read this email

or just paraphrase it. I don't think it gives too much away. Right. I mean there's so

much we don't know just from that. You know? Yeah. So basically it says, hey guys, there's

something most people don't, this is something most people don't think about. But in short,

I'm a 20 year old college student who was assigned female at birth but identifies as

male. And the catch is that I've been doing so without my family knowing for about five

years, which is a long time. Yeah. And that's pretty much all it says. It's kind of like interesting

because I mean I have questions. I don't know like how do they not know? I guess if you're

away at college, you wouldn't. I don't know. And what do you have to change about yourself or maybe

your appearance when you do come home and see your parents? Yeah. That's interesting. Yeah. But and we

still don't know why she hasn't or he hasn't told. Right. I'm going to fuck up these pronouns

all day. Yeah. There's a the good thing is right now. There's I mean, this is an important

conversation, I think, just because yeah, like there's just there's so much discussion around

gender. I actually made a lot of people having encountered it. Yeah. I made a video about

Caitlin Jenner when she she came out as Caitlin Jenner. Yeah. Right. And in the video, I like

fucked up the pronouns like crazy. But you know, and people, well, I was trying, but it's just like,

you know what I mean, I'm already just kind of programmed to say because like I've

new Bruce Jenner for so long that I just, you know what I mean? Yeah. Just kind of second nature at

this point. I don't realize I'm saying it. But I was making the video in favor of the fact like,

you know what I mean? Like do your thing. But yeah, I was fucking it up. So if I do fuck it up,

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