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Ask Pastor John

I’m Obsessed with My Appearance — How Can I Stop?

Ask Pastor John

Desiring God

John Piper, Unknown, 163859, Pastor, Ask, Theology, Desiring God, Religion & Spirituality/christianity, Christianity, Religion & Spirituality, Questions

4.83.8K Ratings

🗓️ 19 October 2020

⏱️ 12 minutes

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Summary

We know outward beauty is insignificant compared to inward beauty. But what should we do if we still feel insecure about our looks?

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0:00.0

How can I be freed from my obsession with my appearance?

0:09.7

It's an ever-important question and it comes in today from an anonymous young woman who

0:14.2

listens to every episode of this podcast and no doubt is listening right now.

0:18.0

Hello, Pastor John.

0:19.0

I am 19 years old.

0:20.0

I've been listening to your podcast for a few years now and it is well a little embarrassing

0:24.0

how much I've been to your episodes.

0:27.0

But they have helped me so much.

0:28.3

Thank you.

0:29.3

I have a question that I have been wrestling with for a while about self-image.

0:34.0

For years now, I have dealt with hating what I see in the mirror.

0:37.1

It's been a frustrating and emotional journey.

0:39.5

I struggle with a lot of self-comparison and a very critical of my own appearance.

0:44.7

I give very self-conscious when I'm not wearing makeup or when I wear certain clothes.

0:48.7

I know this is a huge problem from young women.

0:51.4

Women need Jesus to forgive their sins not to make them feel beautiful and yet knowing

0:55.4

that, I still struggle here.

0:57.4

I know that this is a branch of pride and self-love to be so caught up in appearance.

1:02.6

It's very damaging and discouraging and it affects my daily life.

1:07.0

I was wondering how you would biblically encourage women who struggle with the same thing.

1:13.0

Let me begin with a story.

1:15.8

Evelyn Brand was born in England in 1879 and grew up in a well-to-do British family.

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