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Subject, I'm not going this year.

Dear Stephen Shirley, my boyfriend is 14 years older than I am.

We met through a dating app, and in his profile, he stated that he's looking for adventure and fun. As we got to know each other, he admitted

that he did not, that he did a lot of threesomes in his 30s, but he said it's not his thing anymore.

He said he's even had more than two girls in the bed at one time.

I told him it was TMI, but he said he wanted me to know what I was getting into.

At that time, I had never been with another female, but I was curious. That was a year ago.

I've matured a lot since then, and it all happened this January when my boyfriend took me to his friend's 50th birthday party.

I met the most beautiful woman I had ever seen, and she was so sweet.

We talked all night, and she told me that mostly everyone at the party has had sex with each other. I asked if

they had a swinger's thing going on and she said it wasn't like that. Like I said, I was curious

so I invited the woman over to my boyfriend's house. To make a long story short, we all started

hooking up. We stopped messing with her in October of this year and

since then she's been calling my boyfriend asking for money and threatening to tell everyone

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