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The Dr. Laura Podcast

I'm Having Trouble Being Happy For My Dad

The Dr. Laura Podcast

Dr. Laura Schlessinger & SiriusXM

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4.66.3K Ratings

🗓️ 21 January 2022

⏱️ 6 minutes

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Summary

I'm Having Trouble Being Happy For My Dad - Elizabeth's mom died unexpectedly, and now her father is dating and would like her to meet his girlfriend. - Dr. Laura: "How you feel about a person is less important than how you behave around them." - Do you have a parent who's trying to move on after the death of their spouse? Email me your thoughts at: drlaura@drlaura.com | To participate on the radio program; call 1-800-Dr-Laura / 1-800-375-2872 or make an appointment - https://www.drlaura.com/make-an-appointment. Become a Dr. Laura Family Member: https://www.drlaura.com/ See https://www.drlaura.com/privacy-policy for privacy information.

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Elizabeth, welcome to the program. Hi Dr. Laura, thanks for taking my call.

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You're welcome. So my mom passed away about 2 and a half years ago at the age of 66,

1:06.8

and it was completely unexpected she wasn't sick or anything.

1:11.9

Yeah, since then, over the last like eight months or so, my dad has been starting to date a woman.

1:20.8

And I am very happy now that he has found a way to be happy because he's obviously been having

1:31.6

his struggles of his own. And I know this woman makes him happy. I'm struggling though,

1:38.1

and I'm going to be careful about using the word, but I have a reason for it. I'm feeling a

1:43.4

little bit guilty because I'm afraid I'm being wrong in how I feel about this. Okay, before you go

1:52.7

on, let me say, I don't give a damn about how you feel. I care only about how you behave.

2:00.6

You can feel as hurt and angry and confused and wish the world could go back in time. You could

2:06.3

feel a zillion different feelings. It's all in how you behave that you're gracious anyway. But

2:14.2

don't feel guilty about feelings. We don't control feelings. We only control actions.

2:23.5

So I don't care if you're pissed off, disappointed, angry, guilty. I don't know why guilty is in

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