This is the Ramsey Call of the Day, part of the Ramsey Network.

Let's go out to Tim in Oklahoma City.

Hey, Tim, what's up, ma'am?

I'm 53 years old.

I'm going through a divorce.

And I spent the last couple years as a stay-at-home dad,

homeschooling my son. And I really, I don't have, I don't have anything. I don't, I mean,

the baby steps is definitely why I met. I wish I'd have known about all this sooner in life. But I didn't have parents. My mom taught us to cocaine and lose and my dad taught us to fight and booze.

And now I'm going to a divorce. My wife's trajectory is going out of the roof.

She gets a lot of Facebook attention and Instagram attention, and that is a contributing factor.

But I don't, I'm, I'm scared.

I'm 53 years old and I'm scared.

Yeah.

But I don't, I have zero. I'm sorry, man. It's not your fault.'t, I have the hero.

I'm sorry, man.

That's not your fault.

I know, but you're my brother and, um, you know, I mean, my parents have some blame,

but they don't, they've never been parents, you know?

That's right. You know, I, they did the best they could do and it was really terrible.

You know, my dad tried to throw me through a plate glass window when I was three.

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

Yeah, yeah.

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