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Now our first story is coming from I'm Being Me 32 who says am I the asshole for banning my relatives from my wedding.

I female 32 am getting married in February.

My best friend is a trans woman who will be my maid of honour.

I've been friends with us since we were children. My dad's older brother

is very bigoted and quite frankly hateful. He especially has an aversion to trans people and says

the most horrible things about them. His wife is no different. I've decided not to invite those two

to my wedding, mostly to protect my friend and to avoid drama.

Their kids, my cousins told them if their parents can't come, then they won't either.

I told them to get lost and that my wedding would be better off without them.

My mum understands why I'm doing this, but my dad is upset and says I'm being unreasonable.

He keeps promising me that his brother won't do anything and will just

sit quietly. But I refuse to budge. I just don't trust my uncle to act like an adult because of his

past behaviour. My mum told me that my aunt, said uncle's wife, has been crying, one of her favourite

manipulation tactics. Now tell me, am I the asshole? Am I really being

callous in trying to protect my best friend? Now absolutely it's going to be a notly asshole from me

and well done for you for protecting your friend in this situation. And this is your wedding.

Would you want to be sitting there thinking that something might happen?

And even if he wasn't saying it out loud, who knows what he's whispering in the background

and you just don't want that pressure and it's not fair to your friend either. Absolutely not

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