I'm a widower and want to go out with my wife's female friend.

How to approach this?

Hey, we should get together and grab a drink sometime.

Simple's that. Ask her out on a date.

And then when you're out of the date, is she playing with her hair?

Is she bumping into you? Is she touching your arm?

Does she seem excited to be there?

Is her body language leaning toward you or away from you? All the stuff I talk about in the book. And if you're worried about, hey, does this girl like me? Is she want to kiss me or not? You do the kiss test. And if she looks at your lips wide, anytime you're doing the kiss test, then that means she wants to kiss you. So you literally can take her out for drinks and look for the signs in her body language that she's attracted to you. And then when the signs are there, make your move. You don't have to worry about rejection. She'll kiss you back. Hang out. Have fun. Hook up. Simple as that. You can help each other with your grief therapy. It's just weird. I've never heard of that before, where it's like the, he's a widower and he's going out

with his late wife's friends.

It happens in movies a lot.

Or vice versa.

I've never heard of that.

Well, look at Shania Twain, the famous country singer.

She was married to Mutt Lang, who was the producer for, like, ACDC, Def Leopard.

These huge big bands from the 80s that were just, you know, the biggest in the world.

And he started working with her to help her produce music.

They fell in love.

And I think they had a family together.

And then her husband,

Mutt Lang, started sleeping with her female best friend and had an affair.

And then her best friend leaves her husband.

And then Mutt Lang and her former female best friend got together.

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