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🗓️ 31 July 2023
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0:00.0 | Thanks for listening to my call of the day podcast. You can hear my live radio program Monday through Friday from 2 to 5 p.m. Eastern time on Sirius XM. |
0:10.0 | Triumph 111. Connor, welcome to the program. |
0:14.0 | Hi, Dr. Laura. Thank you for taking my call. Thank you. |
0:18.0 | So I am a high school senior and I will be graduating on Friday. |
0:22.0 | And in the beginning of this year and about November, I started dating this girl in high school with me. |
0:29.0 | I was a senior. She was in her junior year and something you should know about me is that I'm a very giving person. |
0:37.0 | So in the beginning of the relationship, I was always putting myself second and always putting her first. |
0:43.0 | I was pushing. |
0:44.0 | Okay. You know, it's interesting that you said that something I should know about you. |
0:49.0 | Because I want to explain when somebody says that sentence to a therapist, we already have you pegged as low self-esteem. |
0:59.0 | Okay. |
1:01.0 | So it sounds nice. I'm a very giving person sounds almost Christ like. |
1:09.0 | It sounds so nice. It sounds so good. |
1:12.0 | But when people announce that's who they are, they're pretty much telling a professional. |
1:16.0 | I don't have any self-esteem. So what I do is I put everybody else first. |
1:20.0 | Or at least this girl first because then she'll like me and won't leave me. |
1:26.0 | And I'll be safe and connected. |
1:29.0 | It's generally not a healthy thing to sacrifice yourself like that, especially at your age. |
1:35.0 | Yeah, and I could really understand that now. |
1:38.0 | And I wish I would have put myself more first and spoken up a little bit when something was bothering me or whatnot, but I didn't do that. |
1:47.0 | And let me just jump out of this for one second. |
1:50.0 | Last year there was a girl I was like madly in love with and I did everything for her. |
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