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Seeing Other People

"I'm 34 And I've Never Had a Boyfriend"

Seeing Other People

Ilana Dunn

Relationships, Society & Culture, Sexuality, Health & Fitness, Mental Health, Social Sciences, Science

4.5608 Ratings

🗓️ 12 December 2024

⏱️ 60 minutes

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Summary

I'm joined by Paige Crutcher, host of Adultish Wines, to discuss modern relationships, dating apps, and personal growth. We kick the episode off with one of Paige's hilariously wild dating stories, and then dive deeper into a discussion about people-pleasing, relationship statuses, coping mechanisms, handling rejection, and maintaining a positive mindset in the dating scene.

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Transcript

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0:00.0

This podcast is brought to you by Podcast Nation.

0:04.8

Hey guys, it's Alana and welcome back to another episode of Seeing Other People.

0:10.1

Together, we're navigating modern dating alongside experts and real-life daters who are sharing their stories.

0:16.1

Don't have a date for tonight? No problem. Come learn, laugh, and maybe even cry along with us as we navigate the dating scene together.

0:23.5

Croucher? Yes. Okay. I just wanted to make sure I had it right. Um, so you never say it to my knowledge.

0:30.3

I don't ever say it. Pageer P. Yeah, page or P. You know. Yeah. I don't ever. You know what's funny is some of my good friends call me crutcher, like as an aggressive, like they'll be like crutcher.

0:43.4

That's funny. I don't ever say my first and last name. That's funny. I'm, I'm such a first-y-lasty. Like, I don't think people call me Alana. They call me Alanan, which is now led to an identity crisis because I now

0:55.3

have a new last name. Oh my God. Great point. Yeah, well, you know what I heard one time that it's

1:02.1

it's better to introduce yourself as first and last. Like, it's like a strong, like, thing to do.

1:07.4

Like, I'm Paige Crutcher. I'm Alana Dunn. Wait, what's your new last name?

1:16.9

Solomon. So I'm keeping my last name as my middle name. I'm dropping. So I was Alana Lauren Dunn, and I'm becoming Alana Dun Solomon. Oh, yeah. Okay. That's a strong name.

1:23.9

Yeah. I think I want to like go by Alana Dun Solomon, though. Like not just Salomon. I don't know. I don't know. I've been losing sleep over this for a year. I'm trying to put it behind me. I've started the paperwork. So it's happening whether I like it. No, Alana Dun Salomon. Love it. I think it flows. I've gotten I've gotten more acquainted with it. Anyways, Paige Crusher, welcome to seeing

1:45.7

other people. Thank you so much. I am so excited to be. I'm honored to be on your podcast.

1:51.2

I am so excited. We had such a fun time on adultish wines. And I just want to applaud you for

1:57.6

creating such a wonderful, like, safe space for people to really just share

2:03.8

their stories. I think your podcast is incredible. And I want everyone who's listening to this to

2:08.7

pause this, go listen to Adultus Schwines, and then come back and finish this episode.

2:12.5

Thank you so much. I really appreciate it. It's my, I think we talked about it briefly on the episode with you that like I've quit a lot of things in my life. And when I found podcasting and how passionate I was about it, I was like, oh, I wasn't, I wasn't just a quitter. It was because I found thing, I didn't ever find something that I really wanted and was passionate to do. So I love it so much. And thank you for being one of my guests. Your episode,

2:35.0

I'm not sure when this episode is coming out, but your episode is either coming out next week or

2:38.6

the week after. So very excited for people to hear. I'm excited. Yeah. So that's out now

2:45.8

for those listening to this. That is out. So go check it out. We had a really great time.

2:50.6

What led you to start adultishines? Really, it started. I'm originally from

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