“I Love My Husband (Who Hates Me)”

Girls Gotta Eat

Ashley Hesseltine and Rayna Greenberg

Society & Culture, Comedy

4.5 • 29.6K Ratings

🗓️ 30 March 2026

⏱️ 80 minutes

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Summary

We are discussing the viral article “I Love My Husband (Who Hates Me)” – what these relationships look like, why witnessing them on TV/social media is so triggering to people, and why women stay in these relationships and defend their partners’ behavior. We talk about triangulation (the “us against the world” mindset), signs you’re in a relationship like this, how to approach it with your partner, and when it’s time to break up. Then we dissect two listener emails – one from a woman whose partner never compliments her and another from a woman whose partner has been making her feel small in public. Before we get into the topic, we address the breakup rumors about us (!!!), when commenting on IG takes a turn, and the real reason people like spicy food. Enjoy! Follow us on Instagram @girlsgottaeatpodcast, Ashley @ashhess, and Rayna @rayna.greenberg. Visit https://girlsgottaeat.com for live show tickets and more. Thank you to our partners this week: Rocket Money: Reach your financial goals faster at https://rocketmoney.com/gge. Shopify: See how easy it is to start your own business at https://shopify.com/gge. Revolve: Get 15% off your first order at https://revolve.com/gge with code GGE. The Testaments: Watch the new Hulu Original Series The Testaments premiering April 8 on Hulu and Hulu on Disney Plus for bundle subscribers. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	The behavior of you've shared this with your friends, and now your friends don't like this person,
0:04.0	and they're, like, coming at you and you snap into this, like, defensive mode,
0:07.3	you almost feel like you're judging me for having chosen this person.
0:11.2	Yeah.
0:11.5	Yeah.
0:15.7	Yeah. This podcast is a dear media production.
0:29.4	Hi guys.
0:30.2	Welcome back to another episode of Girls Gotta Eat.
0:33.2	Raina just revealed to me she's been making her own calamari.
0:36.4	That is so high level with the kitchen sink app i'm assuming
0:40.6	calamari with the kitchen sink app downloaded on the app store what are you saying i mean i really like
0:46.0	poached calumari which a lot of people don't like they like grilled or fried obviously but i like it just like
0:50.2	dropped in salted lemon water taking out raw dog you drop it in for 60 seconds it's cooked
0:54.9	and you slice it into like the rings i like tentacles too and i mix it up with like sunride tomato
1:01.0	oil and sunride tomatoes and some olives and i just like eat it throughout the week it's a nice snack in
1:06.3	my fridge okay yeah you are a calomari purist love so you're not frying it at home. No, I would sear it a little bit if I had to, but not for this recipe. And it's cheap. It's $10 a pound at whole food. Just like right now? This week. This week at whole food. Guys, calamari is cheap right now. Gas, expensive. Calamari is cheap.
1:28.0	I've been doing that.
1:29.2	I've been making like crab salad and shrimp salad. I've just been like cooking at home. Can I get food? And then I go to Whole Foods. Okay. Just making the rounds. Oh, shrimp, grill, shrimp. That's so wholesome. That's what I've been up to. Also, I have to tell you something. I did this.
1:41.3	Well,
1:41.4	should we thank our partner
1:42.5	is up?
1:42.7	Yeah,
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