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Seeing Other People

"I Lost Myself in my Relationship"

Seeing Other People

Ilana Dunn

Relationships, Society & Culture, Sexuality, Health & Fitness, Mental Health, Social Sciences, Science

4.5608 Ratings

🗓️ 20 April 2023

⏱️ 57 minutes

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Summary

This episode my be triggering to those with sensitivities around domestic violence and acts of physical and verbal abuse.


I’m joined by a woman who opens up about the abusive relationship that she was in. We hear how the relationship started, when things took a turn, whether or not she realized she was a victim of domestic violence, why she stayed with him for as long as she did, and what finally helped her leave.


If you or someone you know is a victim of domestic violence, help is available. The National Domestic Hotline is here to listen with confidential support 24/7/365. Call 800-799-7233

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Transcript

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0:00.0

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0:04.8

People that do get abusive and controlling like to cut off communication.

0:09.9

And it was like a physical representation.

0:12.9

Oh, he's cutting off my communication.

0:15.3

Hey guys, it's Alana and you're listening to seeing other people unfiltered.

0:20.0

It's Thursday. So that means real life daters are coming on to share their real, sometimes

0:24.9

shocking, and always unfiltered experiences.

0:28.0

Think you're alone out there?

0:29.1

Think you're the only one whose ex hooked up with your mom or whose last date ended up being

0:33.3

a catfish?

0:34.0

Think again.

0:37.5

This episode may be triggering to those with sensitivities around domestic violence or acts

0:42.1

of physical and verbal abuse. If you or someone you know is a victim of domestic violence,

0:47.2

help is available. The National Domestic Violence Hotline is here to listen with confidential support

0:52.2

24-7-365. Call 800-799-7-233.

0:58.4

I am 33 and I am on here to talk about a past relationship that I had that involved

1:05.5

domestic violence, some verbal abuse, really difficult relationship, but wanted to just

1:13.1

broach a subject that's really difficult. Thank you feels like not even like the right words,

1:20.1

because it feels like the words thank you don't have enough weight to hold for just how I feel

1:24.2

about you reaching out and being open to coming on and talking about this.

1:27.6

I imagine it's not easy to talk about.

1:31.0

I obviously can't begin to imagine what it was like to go through,

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