Hi guys. I'm taking some time off for the holidays and I hope you are too. In the meantime, please enjoy some of my favorite AMA from the past year. I will be back with all new shows Monday, January 5th. Have a safe and happy holiday. There's some finger-looking good calls over here. So let's start with Natalie. Hi, Natalie. How are you? Hi, Tinks. How are you? I'm good. Thanks for calling. Welcome to the show. What's going on? Thank you. Okay. So I wrote you on A&A last week about a crazy dating experience that I had where I lost my virginity to a guy and then found out that he was married. And so I wanted to give you the full tea. Oh my God. You better give me the full tea. Start from the beginning. Okay. So basically, I matched with this guy on Hinge. So this was last fall. Okay. And we quickly went on like an amazing first date. And so in the first few weeks of dating, like literally all green flags. Like, I swear I had you in my mind, like, after listening to you and following you for so many years of, like, date box, this is how you should feel.

I was like, oh, my gosh, like, it's finally happening, you know?

So I felt so securely, like, in the date box.

And we talked about past relationships, and he told me that he really

hadn't dated anyone seriously in like the last year or so and his last relationship was like a

college slash kind of like hometown okay girlfriend and are you guys the same age he's a little bit

older i am 24 and he was 28 okay so. So, okay, yeah, but no, normal.

Total normal. Yeah. Okay. Yeah. Right. Okay. So another important note to this story is, as I mentioned,

I was a virgin at this time. Right. So I, not for any specific reason, but I just never met anyone who I, you know, felt comfortable

with and ready to do that.

But that definitely felt different with him.

And so I knew I wanted him to know just in the effort of like prioritizing my own comfort

and all of that.

Of course.

So I told him and he was so understanding and made me feel so safe and, like, knew how important

it all was to me.

Yeah.

And so everything went well during that conversation and after.

So basically at this point, I just feel amazing.

Like, we're both on the same page about what we're looking for.

Both ready for a long-term relationship,

like all of his actions really aligned with his words. And like, most importantly, like,

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