brought to you by the every dollar app start budgeting for free today i was wondering how do i

fix financial infidelity when it was the only thing my husband asked me not to do when we first got

together um we've been together about 16 years we have two kids together. I never lied to him about money.

And we had taken all of our money and we opened a restaurant together.

And very quickly, it ended up not working out.

And I told him everything was fine when it wasn't.

And then we ended up losing our apartment

and that's when I kind of, you know, was forced to come clean about it. I was just, you know,

very scared for the repercussions of it. And now he thinks it's best that we separate because

he doesn't think I'm trustworthy anymore.

I'm sorry.

So the restaurant, you said very quickly went sideways, but you lost an apartment.

That doesn't happen quickly. Yeah, but you lost an apartment. That doesn't happen quickly.

Yeah, so we opened in October, and then, you know, we had a little bit of money coming in

and looked like it was doing good, but we really, we'd never run a restaurant before. We had

no idea what we were doing, so I was able was able to like pay the rent at our apartment

and then I stopped saying credit cards so I could pay the rent and um does he does he not

involved in the budgeting at all uh no I've always taken care of it um oh so he handed it all to you

and then doesn't like what you did?

Well, he asked for the bank information, and I didn't give it to him because I was scared that, you know, we failed.

You opened a restaurant in October.

Mm-hmm.

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