I let my ex use my property for her wedding, and her new fiancé found out we dated and

wants me uninvited.

One of my best friends, who will call Carla, is getting married soon.

It's only meant to be a small backyard kind of wedding, but they've been planning it for

a few months now, and originally it was supposed to be on my property.

They wanted it because it's

private, has lots of open space for the reception, a nice few, and the house could be used for them to get ready and stuff.

Of course, I said yes, and she and her fiancé, Rick, were very happy. The thing is, Carla and I do have a history.

We went out on and off in college, but decided to stay friends.

Then I met my wife, we got married, Carla met Rick, and now here they are. Now my wife knows that I

went out with Carla back in college and she didn't care. Carla still went to our wedding and everything.

I never knew if Rick was told or not. It's not my relationship, therefore, not my

business to say anything, so I never did. Rick apparently found out recently and was not in the best

way about it. Not sure how, but from what I heard from friends, it's that one mutual friend told him,

no idea why, that we used to date. Not only that, but apparently Carla said a couple of years ago she was still

in love with me when she was already dating Rick. I don't have actual confirmation on that last

part. It's just what I was told. All Carla's told me is that Rick was told about our past and he's

angry at her for never saying anything up till now. It's become quite a drama and I didn't hear from her for over a month until just now.

She's told me they're going to couples counselling and that the wedding is still on, but Rick

requested that I not attend it.

It sucks, but I totally get why he wouldn't be comfortable with me there.

Then I asked the obvious question, where are they going to hold the wedding now then?

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