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Lovers and Friends with Shan Boodram

I (kinda) Hate My Lover ft/ Jazzmyne Jay

Lovers and Friends with Shan Boodram

LOVERS by shan

Sexuality, Society & Culture, Relationships, Health & Fitness

55.5K Ratings

🗓️ 18 May 2022

⏱️ 59 minutes

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Summary

A lot of us learn how to love, but we don’t necessarily learn how to cope with not loving everything about the person we love. This episode is all about the difference between disliking some things about your partner and/or disliking your partner. How do you know if something small and annoying can turn into something big and unbearable down the road? What should you do when you get to the place where the two of you just can't seem to get along?

Jazzmyne Jay is back in this episode to share why she moved in with her partner and then moved out once she found that they just couldn’t get along. And guess what -- they are still together to this day despite that storm. I am also joined by my husband Jared Brady and we discuss why we've never liked each other less than we do right now. Plus, we go through an exercise to try and understand this phase we’re currently in. I also answer some of your questions!

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Transcript

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0:00.0

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0:03.7

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0:08.4

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0:12.5

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0:23.6

financial circumstances and borrowing history, TZZ's apply 18 plus. Your home may be repossessed

0:28.0

if you do not keep up repayments on your mortgage. Let's be honest, a lot of us think that

0:32.1

kind of hating your partner has to sound like this.

0:59.6

But more often, it sounds like this.

1:15.1

Truth is, learn the way most of us at least somewhat learned how to love, but few of us ever

1:20.2

learned how to effectively cope with not loving everything about our romantic partners.

1:25.8

And that's what this episode is largely about. And also, I have got to tell you why this topic is

1:31.6

really, really right on time for me. So let's get into it. All of it. After this.

2:01.6

I think that every day for bringing such a kind caring and loving man this one likes.

2:24.8

I mean, sure, maybe that. Yes, we do consume each other's blood on occasion for ritual purposes.

2:31.6

Okay, no, usually not that. But there is something that all intimate connections will have at least

2:39.6

some of. And that's this. Shout out to Kalice for making one of the most. I'm going to say it

2:48.3

profound and incredible love songs of our time. Because not all songs about love are about the

2:53.4

rosy and glossy side. And although it's not romanticized, I do think that there is something

2:59.6

profoundly beautiful about not being able to stand something about someone and still choosing

3:07.2

to stand by them and do life with them. And parts of that to me are really what real love is all

3:14.9

about. You cut the butter wrong. You don't peel the paper off the butter before you cut it. You

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