I Just Can't Forgive My Spouse

The Naked Marriage with Dave & Ashley Willis

XO Marriage

Society & Culture, Religion & Spirituality, Relationships

4.8 • 2.8K Ratings

🗓️ 5 February 2024

⏱️ 28 minutes

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Welcome to the Naked Marriage Podcast with Dave and Ashley Willis! Hey, friends, in this episode, we're diving into a topic that's close to our hearts – forgiveness in marriage. We're tackling common misconceptions, emphasizing the delicate dance between grace and justice, and sharing our own stories on rebuilding trust and conquering negative thoughts. Join us as we explore the liberating power of forgiveness, breaking free from bitterness, and the crucial role trust plays in the healing journey. We're opening up about the nitty-gritty of our own experiences to inspire you, and, most importantly, reminding you to trust in God's amazing ability to restore and transform marriages through the incredible gift of forgiveness. Tune in for some real talk and real hope! ------------------ Need Help? : https://xomarriage.com/help Order your copy of Married Into The Family Today: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-family For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage -------------------- Takeaways Forgiveness is Commonly Misunderstood Forgiveness Requires Humility Forgiveness is a Daily Choice Trust in God's Ability to Heal Separating Forgiveness and Trust -------------------- 00:00 The Misunderstanding of Forgiveness 03:44 Forgiveness and Trust 05:12 Rebuilding Trust 07:36 Apologizing and Taking Responsibility 09:28 Controlling Negative Thoughts 13:01 Renewing the Mind 16:50 The Power of Forgiveness 19:10 Trusting God in Forgiveness 22:02 Forgiving Oneself Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	For me the most wonderful time of the year is this week because it is the week of the
0:07.7	XO Marriage Conference.
0:10.0	Guys this is my favorite week of the year. It's happening February 9th and 10th in Great Vine, Texas, and I am pumped about it.
0:17.1	It is the best lineup we've ever had. We've got musical guests. We've got a comedian. We've got great surprises, we've got some of my favorite speakers.
0:24.0	I cannot wait for XO 2024. Now the bad news is it's sold out, but I've got some good news,
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0:35.0	XO at home live stream pass you can watch it alone or you watch it with your
0:38.3	spouse you can get a small group together over and have a little watch party
0:41.4	you can watch it live as it happens on February 9th and 10th,
0:45.9	or you can watch it anytime on demand for two weeks following the event. So you're getting the full experience
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0:56.0	Just go to XO at home to register and use the promo code naked to get 25% off XO, AT-T-H-O-M-E dot com promo code naked. Hey friends, welcome to the Naked Marriage Podcast.
1:18.0	We're Dave and Ashley Willis and we are talking today about one of the most misunderstood,
1:25.8	important and powerful elements of marriage.
1:28.3	And that is forgiveness.
1:30.2	What is it?
1:30.9	What is it not?
1:32.0	How will it help you? How does it impact your communication in marriage?
1:35.5	And yeah, it's vital. A marriage has to have a lot of grace. But I think people misunderstand what this means. They think forgiveness means just
1:45.3	maybe is pretending something didn't happen or enabling this really unhealthy
1:51.5	behavior or it's like the opposite of justice you know like
1:55.1	there's either grace or justice there you know you can't have both but but what
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