It's Monday and this is the Ramsey Call of the Day, part of the Ramsey Network.

Joining me today is Ramsey Personality, Ken Coleman.

Kyle is in Grand Rapids, Michigan.

Hey, Kyle, how are you?

Hey, Dave, thanks for taking my call.

I appreciate everything you guys do and the opportunity to discuss my situation.

Sure. What's up? So, I young to get into it. I'm married with three young children.

I'm in debt. I hate my job. I'm having a problem with drinking and I'm just feeling uninspired,

broken and exhausted. I've been working at debt, but I have a ways to go,

and I can't seem to get out of my own way when it comes to figuring out my career

and getting my health together.

If you guys need a little bit more backstory, I can give it to you,

but basically I would just like some advice on how to proceed

because I've been struggling emotionally since before my kids were born and I'm

still not happy with where I am, which I feel bad saying, but that's where I'm at.

Sure. I want you to be as just brief but very descriptive on you keep getting in your own way

as it relates to figuring out what you want to do with your career. What does that mean?

So I feel like I just keep coming and hitting these mental roadblocks,

so I'll sober up and stay focused for a week, two weeks at a time,

and then something will happen that will trigger me emotionally to want to drink

or to do something that's not related to the career I want to have.

And a lot of times I don't know if it's circumstantial or if I'm getting in my own way.

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