I Got Dopey & Didn’t Keep My Word. She Dumped Me. Will She Come Back?

Coach Corey Wayne

Relationships, Society & Culture

4.6 • 532 Ratings

🗓️ 1 February 2026

⏱️ 16 minutes

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0:00.0	Hi, I'm Coach Corey Wayne. This is my video coaching newsletter and the topic of today's
0:05.0	newsletter is going to be, I got dopey and didn't keep my word, she dumped me. Will she come back?
0:12.6	Well, this particular email is from a viewer. He recently got dumped by his girlfriend. I guess
0:17.7	they were together for about a year and four months. And he says he became
0:23.9	really dopey. He continually promised to fix things that were causing problems in their relationship.
0:29.6	But he says that he never followed through at all. And eventually she got sick of him not keeping
0:35.9	his word. And so she broke it off with him and so i guess he
0:40.5	went for most of this last year so he was long distance he was away at college but i guess he's
0:45.1	transferred to go to school back home and he actually has classes with his girl so he sees her in
0:49.6	class and that he's gotten all the stuff back that she had of his and stuff and he wonders if she will
0:58.5	come back but what's interesting is he's got a really good attitude about it which is that makes a
1:04.9	big deal because it's tough when you get dumped for the average person takes about a year and a half
1:10.3	to get over a breakup.
1:12.8	And he actually, a couple days afterwards, he suffered for a few days,
1:16.0	but afterwards he started getting back into his routine and focusing on the things he needs
1:20.6	to focus on.
1:21.2	Obviously, they're laid out in the book.
1:23.9	And he feels better about himself.
1:25.7	And that's the important thing.
1:27.3	Because the whole idea, if you're trying to attract a relationship,
1:30.8	you want to get to a happy place first.
1:33.2	And then you'll attract somebody else who's also in a happy place.
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