I said shy because I'm like, ah, that's a good job.

But she caught me.

She said, you thought.

You thought.

Bex, he is a mechanical engineer and though he doesn't make nearly as much as I do as a cardiologist,

he can more than afford to take care of himself financially without my help

and the child that he has with that other lady.

Am I the asshole for not allowing him to be in the birthing room.

My immediate reaction is you're not the asshole.

You're not the asshole.

Like I get that he is the father of the child. But if you're already feeling bad vibes around him, I'm so sorry, but from what people that I know that have gone through the delivery process I've said, even those that you think that you like, in the moment you might not like them. And I need to listen to you and tell, when you're time to go, they better go. Yeah. I was going to say, because even when you're on good terms of your husband, you hear some stories where they're like, you're the one that did this to me. Yeah. I'm screaming. Yeah. Facts. Facts. Facts, facts, best, best, best. And you're like, you're the one that did this to me So not only you're the one that did it to me But you're the one that did it to somebody else Yeah, and they're already going through that one Yeah, so now I have to see you Whilst I'm in this birthing room Nah, stop that Like, you know you're not meant to be that stress Yeah, 100% midwives, they're, oh, make sure you calm your wife or your partner down. You're not the opposite. You're not the opposite. She's going, beep, beep, beep, beep, beep. Whenever he's there, it's calm. And she's a cardio or something. Yeah. She will know. Yeah. Fact. So let's trust in her decision. Obviously, sad because obviously naturally that you said,

I do understand you would expect,

like he does have some... So let's trust in her decision. Obviously, sad because obviously naturally that you said,

I do understand you would expect that he does have some sort of right to the child. Like he says his child, right? Yeah, you have a right to the child, but you don't have a right to be there. You can actually come in after. And most men anyway, they'd be saying that they'd be fainting, they'd be collapsing, they can't even handle the stress. She told them, the midwife pretend them,

oh, yeah, help your wife or help your partner.

They'll be dead.

They're doing her They can't even handle the stress. You tell them, the midwife pretend them, oh, yeah, help your wife or help your partner. They'll be dope. They're doing her. Throwing up. Throwing up. This is too much for me. What have you done? What have you done? They're on the floor. No, facts. You even be the one there like, you're right. Oh, you're right. Yes, I think you'll be checking on there, but you're right.

Can somebody check on my husband please?

What?

Crazy. What do you think, Sharon? Yeah, I don't think she is the asshole, you know. I feel like in this, in this time, you have to put yourself first. Facts. Like you're going to be going through like a very, what's it?

Like giving birth is dangerous.

Yeah, it's not just a walk in the park. Yeah. Yeah. And emotions play a big part in how it goes. Yes, exactly. And so I don't think she's the asshole for saying that he can't be in the birthing room. If she went further and was like, oh, like you can't see her.

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