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Seeing Other People

"I Found Out He Was Married From A Facebook Group"

Seeing Other People

Ilana Dunn

Social Sciences, Sexuality, Health & Fitness, Mental Health, Relationships, Society & Culture, Science

4.5608 Ratings

🗓️ 3 August 2023

⏱️ 52 minutes

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Summary

I'm joined by a 36-year-old woman who opens up about the relationship she found herself in shortly after getting divorced from her ex-husband of 11 years (and the father of her two children). We hear how she and this man met, what their relationship started out like, and how they soon developed a dominant/submissive relationship. She shares how she later found out he was still married and that she was not the only "other woman."

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0:00.0

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0:05.0

What kind of tattoos did he have?

0:06.5

And she's like, oh, I only had one.

0:07.9

And it was, you know, and uh-huh.

0:12.2

Yep.

0:12.9

And I was like, oh, my God.

0:16.5

Hey, guys, it's Alana, and you're listening to seeing other people unfiltered.

0:22.5

It's Thursday. So that means real-life daters are coming on to share their real, sometimes shocking, and always

0:27.4

unfiltered experiences. Think you're alone out there? Think you're the only one whose ex hooked up

0:32.2

with your mom or whose last date ended up being a catfish? Think again. I am anonymous. I am 36. I live in a moderately big city in Oklahoma, where the wind comes

0:46.1

sweeping down the plains. And what are you here to talk about today? I just want to share my story

0:53.9

of how I ended up in a dominant submissive relationship

0:59.4

with a married man.

1:03.3

And for those who are less familiar, what exactly does that mean to be in a dominant

1:08.1

submissive relationship?

1:09.8

Usually, I mean, there's different

1:11.4

variations of it depending on like the level that people want to get into. But basically,

1:17.4

there's one person that's a more dominant person. It could be male or female. And then there's

1:21.9

the submissive bottom, multiple different names that people can go by. In my particular context,

1:30.8

he was more like romantic with me, but as the story kind of unfilled, like he had several

1:39.1

other submissives under his belt, so to speak, and his personality was much different with each one.

1:46.9

Every relationship is very unique and kind of like almost business-like.

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