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Hidden Killers With Tony Brueski | True Crime News & Commentary

"I Finally Got Him, He's Mine" - Rex Heuermann's Wife STILL Worships Accused Gilgo Beach Killer

Hidden Killers With Tony Brueski | True Crime News & Commentary

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🗓️ 23 June 2025

⏱️ 20 minutes

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Summary

"I Finally Got Him, He's Mine" - Rex Heuermann's Wife STILL Worships Accused Gilgo Beach Killer

This might be the most disturbing analysis of denial ever captured on film. Psychotherapist Shavaun Scott joins me to decode footage from the Peacock documentary that reveals how Rex Heuermann didn't just hunt his victims - he carefully selected and groomed his own wife as the perfect enabler.

We examine Asa Ellerup's transformation from vulnerable 18-year-old to devoted wife who STILL calls Rex her "hero" despite overwhelming evidence linking him to seven murders. This goes beyond simple denial - we're witnessing a trauma bond so powerful it's created an alternate reality.

Shocking revelations include:

  • How Rex allegedly killed Sandra Costilla BEFORE marrying Asa in 1996
  • Every murder occurred when Asa took the family to Iceland
  • Rex monitored all devices and controlled every penny for 27 years
  • Asa had NO access to bank accounts when he was arrested
  • She took $1 MILLION for the documentary while victims' families struggle
  • Daughter Victoria now creates "disturbing artwork" processing trauma
  • The basement where women allegedly died is where Asa "still feels Rex"
Most chilling: Prosecutors found Rex's murder planning document from 2000 with notes about "maintaining normal appearance." Was marrying Asa part of the plan? Was she chosen specifically because she'd never question, never suspect, never see?

This isn't just one woman's denial - it's a masterclass in how predators identify vulnerability and create enablers who'll defend them even against DNA evidence.

Content Warning: Detailed discussion of serial murder, psychological manipulation, and extreme denial

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Transcript

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0:00.0

This is the Hidden Killers podcast with Tony Brucey and continuing coverage of the case against Rex Hewerman.

0:09.4

We're about to get into and what you're about to witness is one of the most psychologically complex and disturbing pieces of footage to emerge from any true crime documentary in recent memory.

0:24.8

I got to sit down with psychotherapist Chavon Scott to analyze clips from the Peacock documentary,

0:29.7

The Gilgo Beach Killer House of Secrets.

0:33.8

That sounds a little too happy now, didn't it?

0:36.8

And I got to warn you, what we've discovered about Asa Elripp, Rex Heerman's wife,

0:42.6

might challenge your understanding of denial, trauma bonding,

0:46.9

and how predators select their partners.

0:50.5

Before we dive in, let me set the stage with some contexts that we don't cover in the conversation with Chavon.

0:57.2

This documentary was filmed months after Rex Huraman's arrest in July of 2023, at a time when the evidence against him was already overwhelming.

1:06.6

We're talking about DNA evidence, linking him to six of the seven victims, a murder planning

1:11.2

document created in 2000. That's HK 2002-04, containing detailed instructions for killing and body

1:20.4

disposal, trophy newspaper clipping spanning three decades, cell phone tower records showing their

1:27.3

burner phone activity,

1:29.6

correlating with victims' disappearances.

1:31.9

And here's what makes this even more extraordinary by the time Asa Alrip agreed to participate in this documentary,

1:38.4

reportedly for a million dollars.

1:40.5

Prosecutors had already revealed that every single murder Rex is charged with occurred when she and the children were out of town.

1:48.7

I mean, think about that. She's the one who took these trips to Iceland.

1:52.6

She's the one who left him alone in that house over and over again over 30 years.

1:57.6

Now, most of us would look at that pattern and kind of feel sick.

2:02.4

We'd question every trip, every absence, every time he encouraged us to visit family.

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