yeah this dilemma i don't know whether it's a dilemma but someone sent it in

it's actually funny because i will say why i think it's funny okay okay cool i met a man two years

ago who did not initially disclose that he was married.

Despite learning this later, we continued the relationship.

And I remained involved with him for approximately two years.

During that time, I developed genuine feelings for him and he did for me too.

Dundi.

Towards the end of 2025 and into early 2026, I noticed a shift in his behaviour.

His communication became shorter and inconsistent.

You know the saying

if the text is getting shorter

with you, it's longer with someone else.

I've never heard of that saying.

Clacky.

One Saturday, we met

and we were intimate.

However, from Sunday through Wednesday, he did not check in or message me at all.

When I asked him about it, he insisted that he had contacted me on Tuesday, which was untrue.

I even asked him to look at our chat history, which confirmed that no message had been sent. A few days later, we both saw each other at the same gym.

While doing my exercises, I was looking around for him and something whispered to me to go and see who he is talking to on his phone. As soon as I heard it, I ran. I didn't walk creeping up on him and standing behind him. He didn't know I was there. Okay. Nice. Yeah. I saw messages on his phone from another woman asking if she would be getting a do-over.

This confirmed my suspicions that he was simultaneously involved with multiple women, all while still returning to his wife.

Whenever I questioned him about the other women, he dismissed my concerns and made me feel

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