Thanks for listening to my call of the day podcast. You can hear my live radio program Monday through Friday from 2 to 5 p.m. Eastern Time on Sirius XM Triumph 11. Nick, welcome to the program.

Thank you, Dr. Laura. Really appreciate you to have my call. Thank you.

Thank you. Long current caller since 1993. And I do appreciate all the information of wisdom that you do share on a daily basis.

Thank you. What's up?

Well, I was hoping you might be able to give me some direction towards some experiences that I'm feeling.

I guess to put it in context, I have long-term anger towards a neighbor and kind of like anger

at myself because 30 years ago, which is a long time I know, our kids all played in the

neighborhood together and mostly at our house. But at one point in time, his son asked if they could

go over to their house to play. And I thought since we're all neighbors and they've been so playing so much I said sure

go ahead just watch out because she's only four years old and her brother who was five and a half

all toddled off to the neighbor's house and didn't think too much of it where Where was your, where was your wife?

She would either, she was often there.

And I did not, it was as much permission as my wife and she said, yeah, when we look back

and we count the experiences, I said yes once.

And she said, I think I did it two or three

times because we we had to regroup and find out how often this occurred. Now probably a hundred

times they were always in our backyard. The neighbor boy. Okay so what happened? apparently unbeknownst us of course um the father

was molesting my daughter um i came to really have feel like the word molestation is too weak

i really feel rape you know sometimes with, we say they're molested now.

I feel like... Do you know the magnitude of the actions?

Oral sex, perhaps, some rubbing of genitalia.

And that was with the... And how did you find out?

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