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XM Triumph 111. Susan, welcome to the program. Hello. Hello. What could I do for you?

Well, I'm actually calling, I just want some advice because I don't know. I'm also very nervous, which I know a lot of people say to you but anyway

So I have five kids with my ex-husband and we split custody 50-50.

And he basically, he was drinking a lot, which he kind of did when we were married,

but anyway, I thought I didn't

can you stop throwing in anyway if it's really not important then don't say

it at all but don't say it and then dismiss it with anyway. Come on.

And how did you have five kids with a guy you didn't like too much?

Well, I did like him until he cheated.

And how many kids into the marriage when he cheated? After the five. Oh, right after I had the right after I had the last that were twins.

Got it. Okay. So we ditched him and

and like I said we have 50, 50 custody.

My older kids, or yeah, my three older kids did an intervention with him to have,

just, you know, basically say, stop, if you don't go to rehab we won't see you anymore.

At the intervention the conclusion was I don't know why they came to the intervention

allowed this but he said he claims he doesn't have a problem he said just

give me another chance I I'll stop drinking.

And if I don't, and if I drink, I screw up, I'll go to rehab.

So he lasted six days. He screwed up.

And so the kids left and I guess my question is I just he they're not

going there anymore they they live with me full time he hasn't contested that

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